Add a process options flag to enable the optional behavior. Most users
are likely recommended to set this flag by default, but it was deemed
potentially breaking to set it by default in libuv.
Co-authored-by: Kyle Edwards <kyle.edwards@kitware.com>
uv_run_tests.exe fails to start up with exit code 0xC0000135 a.k.a.
STATUS_DLL_NOT_FOUND, suggesting it cannot find the ASAN runtime
libraries. Disable the buildbot until we figure out how to fix that.
Refs: https://github.com/libuv/libuv/issues/4210
Fixes a detected error: incompatible pointer to integer conversion
passing 'uv_os_fd_t' (aka 'void *') to parameter of type 'SOCKET' (aka
'unsigned long long').
Use upstream llvm to work-around broken VS2022 clang unable to link.
