1. Add `USE_WOLFSSL` to the TLS backend priority list in
`lib/curl_ntlm_core.c`.
2. Fix `lib/curl_ntlm_core.h` to respect TLS backend priority, bringing
it in sync with the above list and `lib/curl_ntlm_core.c` itself.
Reported-by: Mark Roszko
Ref: https://github.com/curl/curl/issues/10321
3. Allow enabling both wolfSSL and OpenSSL at the same time in
`lib/Makefile.mk` bringing this in line with cmake/autotools builds.
Update logic to select the crypto-specific lib for `ngtcp2`, which
supports a single TLS backend at the same time.
Closes#10322
