- replace deprecated `ares_init()` call with `ares_init_options()`.
Follow-up to 0d4fdbf15d#16054
- dedupe `CARES_STATICLIB` initalizations into `curl_setup.h`, to
ensure it's defined before the first (and every) `ares.h` include and
avoid a potential confusion.
- move `CARES_NO_DEPRECATED` from build level to `curl_setup.h`.
To work regardless of build system.
It is necessary because curl calls `ares_getsock()` from two places,
of which one feeds a chain of wrappers: `Curl_ares_getsock()`,
`Curl_resolver_getsock()`, `Curl_resolv_getsock()`.
Closes#16131
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